Had an earth-shatteringly funny thought last night. For some reason I just suddenly pictured the OW (my ex best friend/bridesmaid who is currently with my exNH) sitting on a beach in the howling wind getting sandblasted while being forced to watch exNH kitesurf! He he he he! I am just so glad it's not me anymore! He used to drag me down there to watch him so I could tell him how special he was and used to give me holy hell if I didn't go bc then I was being "unsupportive", Yeah right! And he even likened it to a mother going to watch her son play school sport (I should have waved the red flag around like mad at that comment). Aaah shame, poor little man....having to be praised all the time to boost his fragile little ego. So now I only go to the beach on still days when I WANT to go and if I don't feel like going, then I don't! FREEEEEEEDOM! My online name comes from the feeling I had when I left him - William "Braveheart" Wallace shouting freedom - a friend of mine said instead of a sword I should wave my vibrator around in the air - lol! So come on ladies, post some freedom stories of things you DON'T have to do anymore now that you're on The Path Forward. Have a super duper weekend!