True friendship is a Beautiful thing!!!!

True friendship is a Beautiful thing!!!!
Posted April 27, 2012 - 5:33pm
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For all of you who read my post about possibly running in to my XN tonight....I want to share how wonderful true friends are even when they know nothing about Narcissism.

I just received a phone call from one of my friends who was with me last week when my XN showed up. The first thing she said is we are NOT going to go to that restaurant/bar tonight. That asshole is not going to parade that woman around in front of you again. What he did to you was fucking bullshit. He had zero respect for you by doing what he did to you.

This is someone who knows nothing about the disorder...but will not tolerate his cruel behavior towards me. So not to worry I am in good hands tonight!

Just poured a glass of wine...Here's to all of our dear friends who truly want to see us happy!!! And to all my dear friends on this site as well !!!

What a night it would be if us sisters (and brothers) could all go out for an evening!!! We would tear that place up!!! hahahahaha

Hugs to all

LoserFree

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sweetpeasarah's picture

LF if

April 28, 2012 - 8:14am — sweetpeasarah

all for this forum went out together i think we would have a total blast!! But god help any ;narc type' that came within range lol.
I agree about the friendship, i have one very good friend (actually my son's gf) who saw me through the cancer stuff, picked me up all through the trials and troubles with ex toad, im sure i drove her mad at the time, but bless her she was always there day or night. Love her to bits.
And then of course, there are all the cyber friends here, i've said it many times before, but i just would not have coped with the final breakup and maintaining NC, without. The extent of compassion and caring from 'strangers' in a common goal is truely amazing. Will be eternally grateful to all.
Im going to join you in a glass of wine...cheers to all on the path forward..have a lovely weekend!!
x

kimberly4398's picture

True friendship is really a

April 28, 2012 - 7:47am — kimberly4398

True friendship is really a great thing. I have reached out to my friends and leaned on them so much over the last 4 months with my cancer and dealing with Narc Asshole thoughts for the last 4 weeks. They have listened to me cry, told me what a total loser, douchebag asshole he is and well they are correct. I don't want or need someone like him in my life.

Janie53's picture

Friendship

April 28, 2012 - 1:38pm — Janie53

We all seem to know what to expect in a friendship; the ups and downs, the give and take, the tears and the joy. True friends want the best for each other! Good friendships don't need an explanation. You know it. Compare your relationships with your friends with those of your narcs.

"There comes a point in your life when you realize who really matters, who never did, and who always will." Unknown

Stay true to you!
Janie

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My best friend has been there

April 27, 2012 - 8:38pm — courlie

My best friend has been there for me every day since my Ex-Narc left. Couldn't have made it without her... here's to wonderful, loving friends!

hugs,
courlie

Brit's picture

friends

April 27, 2012 - 5:43pm — Brit

I have a lovely friend too. They are priceless. She has helped me so much. Her exhusband was a pig to her so she has insight. I am so grateful to her and all the girls on this site for their unerring wisdom and support.

Have a great evening, away from the chaos aka effing b'stard narc.

Your true friends love you.

Brit x

bluegirl's picture

I too have a lovely friend,

April 27, 2012 - 10:12pm — bluegirl

I too have a lovely friend, going through her own horrible times, who has been there all the way. She was the one telling me I was changing for the worst when i didn't want to hear it. She was the one taking all the heat and hatred from this guy by calling him on some of the worse of the BS. She was the one dragging me out of my house when I would go, bringing me food and movies when I would not. She is like my sister.