TW called it exactly right, almost to the DAY! One month ago was the last time I got a call (didn't answer) from the exN, who left me a voice mail. He was visiting one of "our" places, and my presence was everywhere, he loved me, blah blah blah lie lie lie. Anyway, that was Mr. Nice Guy. TW predicted that in about a month, I'd hear from Mr. Rage.
Today, I got a call on my cell phone from a phone number I didn't recognize, at ALL. Not even in our same area code. So, I didn't answer. There was a voice mail message, so I listened to it. I know, I know...BUT at this point, if it was the N, I knew I could handle whatever bullshit he tried to hand me. I should have just hung up when I heard his voice, but I was curious to see if Mr. Rage would make an appearance.
Oh, yes, he did. It went something like: "I can't believe you would cut off all contact with ME! I can't believe you don't want to know what's going on in my life, and you don't want me to know what's going on in YOURS! I can't believe you won't have anything to do with ME! My testosterone levels are back to normal! I'm not fucking anybody, but I'm jacking off three or four times a day! I can make myself come 2 times in 45 minutes! I can't believe you won't take my call! I'm going to the beach next month, no one is going with me, I was hoping we could hook up. If I don't hear from you, I'll leave you alone!" (Famous last words, I heard that last time.) Then, "I know you're trying to "get over" me and I know what that means (implying that I've found someone else, that was intended to make me call him and defend myself.) "I just can't believe you're doing this to ME!"
Did that cause me any grief whatsoever? Nope. Did it intimidate me into contacting him, or responding to him in any way? Not a BIT! All it told me is that this NC thing is DOING ITS JOB! And made me even more determined to keep it up.
So, Mr. Nice Guy didn't work, and Mr. Rage didn't stir up a single emotion in me at all. Nada. This was his second attempt at hoovering in a month, but it probably won't be the last. Wonder which guy will show up next? Mr. Apologetic? Still haven't met him yet.
Still staying true to myself, Janie, and TW...still NCNCNC!