I take great satisfaction in the fact that both my NH and his OW are both messing around on each other. She's as bad as he is - total narc - yet they still live together even with all the fooling around. Twisted much?
"Love" NEVER, its a permanent disorder - you can wish in one hand shit in the other and guess what you will come up with? ya you guessed it!!! So now that we have all confirmed that for you have a good cry, and tell him to go to hell where he belongs -
They do not change, they can not change. They don't realize there is anything wrong with them. They are perfect and are entitled to being adored, admired and loved by all but as soon as the masks fall off they move on.
Nothing changes if nothing changes. They are nothings and can not, will not, do not change!
Loveyy, they NEVER change. Not ever. How he was with you, he was always that way with other women and he will always be the SAME way. In some ways, they get worse! The OW has NOTHING to do with this! Really! She is a tool, a prop to him. He USES her for whatever it is she is SUPPLYING him with, just as you were. She is no different. She is a victim. His CURRENT victim. This is truth. I do not noticing you posting much. Are you here reading and learning? Understanding PDs is STEP 1 on the path forward. Until you can understand it, you cannot connect the dots of how you allowed this disordered one control over you and your emotions. Step 1- UNDERSTAND IT.
I take great satisfaction in
April 26, 2012 - 8:30am — KayJayGeeI take great satisfaction in the fact that both my NH and his OW are both messing around on each other. She's as bad as he is - total narc - yet they still live together even with all the fooling around. Twisted much?
That's right, they never
April 25, 2012 - 10:31pm — JourneyThat's right, they never change, no matter who the OW currently is. Believe it!
Nope they don't change...
April 25, 2012 - 9:18pm — MovingforwardnowI believe they get worse.
Doesn't matter who OW is she is in for the same rude awakening we received. Poor thing, but not our problem. Be true to you!
They dont change and same
April 25, 2012 - 7:12pm — HunterThey dont change and same goes for the answer to this question.. NO..
Hunter
hunter
April 28, 2012 - 5:14am — UsedLOL...
No
April 24, 2012 - 11:09pm — neverlookback"Love" NEVER, its a permanent disorder - you can wish in one hand shit in the other and guess what you will come up with? ya you guessed it!!! So now that we have all confirmed that for you have a good cry, and tell him to go to hell where he belongs -
never ever ever ever ever
April 24, 2012 - 10:55pm — abrevanever change.
just worse.
Loveyy, the choice is yours now!
April 24, 2012 - 9:55pm — Janie53If you want your life to be more rewarding, you have to change the way you think.
Oprah Winfrey
you are correct
April 24, 2012 - 9:48pm — MovingforwardnowThey do not change, they can not change. They don't realize there is anything wrong with them. They are perfect and are entitled to being adored, admired and loved by all but as soon as the masks fall off they move on.
Nothing changes if nothing changes. They are nothings and can not, will not, do not change!
No matter who the OW
April 24, 2012 - 9:44pm — SparrowNo matter who the OW is........they don't change nor can the OW hang on to the narc forever.
It's as simple as that............
Goodness gracious Loveyy my dear........
April 24, 2012 - 9:33pm — LaylaWhat can I say to you anymore? What can any of us say!?? Haha! I am going to rename you "Repeat". Didn't we already go through this?? ; )
From Goldie:
http://www.lisaescott.com/2012/04/10/pd-happy-now-ow-he-looks-happy-and-...
From Lisa:
http://www.lisaescott.com/2011/03/24/why-narcissist-will-never-change
Loveyy, they NEVER change. Not ever. How he was with you, he was always that way with other women and he will always be the SAME way. In some ways, they get worse! The OW has NOTHING to do with this! Really! She is a tool, a prop to him. He USES her for whatever it is she is SUPPLYING him with, just as you were. She is no different. She is a victim. His CURRENT victim. This is truth. I do not noticing you posting much. Are you here reading and learning? Understanding PDs is STEP 1 on the path forward. Until you can understand it, you cannot connect the dots of how you allowed this disordered one control over you and your emotions. Step 1- UNDERSTAND IT.
Start reading!
love~ Layla
Thanks Layla!
April 24, 2012 - 9:36pm — Janie53Thanks Layla!
"High Five" you Janie!
April 24, 2012 - 9:41pm — Layla: )
love~ Layla
:) back at you Layla!I love
April 24, 2012 - 9:57pm — Janie53:) back at you Layla!
I love how you are true to you!
xoxoxo