Ok. I was feeling good and then f-ing bam! During my relationship with narctard I had a gut feeling the whole time about him and my BEST FRIEND! I even mentioned it to him many times....always ended up in a fight. Of course my faul because I am insecure and blah, blah, mother fucking blah.
Needless to say prior to our relationship ending my friendship with her ended. the final D & D came the night before his 50th birthday. The ex best friend called him and of course he palyed it off as if it was innocent. I was done by this point. I AM NOT STUPID! They both are blocked on FB but there is one mutual friend (or so I thought was a friend) that he and I still have (Yes I have blocked this person now) but tonight on his (the mutual friend) FB he friended my ex best friend.
Long story short the whole group defriended her when I did and called her a crazy bitch balh, blah, blah...but my gut always told me there was something going on. The only connection between this mutual friend and my ex best friend is narc tard. Yes, this is no doubt his latest supply.
The thing that pisses me off is the fact that whenever I called him on his behavior with her he'd tell me I am crazy blah, blah, balh, and now it has all been revealed. So I am pissed at myself becuase I should have listened to my gut all along.
Yuck! I know hse will not be treated well. I know he will beat her, verbally abuse her, berate and belittle her so why do I care? I don't think I care, I think I am most upset because this was, she was, a thorn in my side during our realtionship and I was always made to feel like I was the crazy one, making shit up.
Sorry for the rant, but if you can't rant to your fellow survivors who can you rant to?