I met this guy in January. And I know that that is easy to fall for another N after being with one. Quite honestly though, I can't complain about this guy. He has been nothing but nice and respectable to me. Yes my guard is up through the roof. Actually it seems like I can be the melodramatic one. He's a great guy though. every time we have an issue. He's mature about it and HE strives to change. He's awesome though he makes me feel beautiful. Now I'm hoping its not the old saying to good to be true. but far as i know he has only been spitting out nice guy signs to me. Its actually weird because I never had a guy care so much for me. Even after knowing everything he's wiling to take on my 3 kids and "take care of me" I find it sweet. Does anyone else have luck after the N. I do see a therapist regularly, I study and research on Narcs alot and even spent a great deal of time figuring out myself and how I am also. Sometimes it feels weird feeing happy. like I always expect him to turn into a monster or something. but he hasn't. sorry just wanted to share my thoughts with you guys and what you think.