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My Sisters,
Are you tired of being stuck and feeling lost? Have you had it up to here with the pain, being conflicted and the obsessive thoughts? Are you ready to move forward and don't know how? I had to share this with all of you! I want all of us to move forward on our path!
I knew I had to make a change, I was stuck and was so tired of the fear, the pain and the crying and making no progress. The support of my sisters is amazing, but I knew I was missing something. Something inside me was drawing me to Goldie. I love her blog's and noticed she offers One to One's for only $75.00 an hour. I felt in my gut, my instincts said just book it, so I did.
Ladies, this was the session I have NOT had with any therapist at $150.00 an hour in 20 years! In my first session with Goldie I had a huge breakthrough that freed me of so much of my pain, explained why I ended up in the relationships I have,gave me the strength to stand up and healed the little girl inside me...On my second session my youngest teenage daughter in love with a Jr. Narc in training was having a meltdown because he threatened to kill himself and told her everything wrong with him was her fault. Thank God Goldie was on the phone with me! She and I were able to talk her off the ledge and show her what he was doing. Not only was Goldie there for me, she was there for my daughter! She saved both of us! Now my daughter is on her own path! I now have the strength and tools I learned from Goldie to help my three daughters not end up like me.
Goldie brought me out of the darkness and into the light! She is truly one of us!
God Bless and Hope you find your way to Goldie!
Much Love and Hope!
Thank you Breakingfree
April 15, 2012 - 11:28am — goldieYour words and progress make what we do worthwhile. Don't forget you are ready and willing to do the work. You signed up for the one on one's, the new support group, and a therapist.
The more we put into our the recovery, the sooner we begin to feel better and begin to look at our patterns.
The group is good because you have the support of the other group members, and we learn a better understanding of what a PD is and how it has affected us, as well as sorting our all these feeling which keep pouring out.
God bless,
Goldie
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April 14, 2012 - 7:17pm — LaylaKris I am glad to hear this!!!!!!!
So happy you are finding your power again!
The thing about Goldie and our Mods is the fact they have been exactly where we are in every stage of our recovery, they "get it". So comforting to know we can come to a place of very nice people who are not only caring, but KNOWLEDGEABLE about PDs AND have walked in our footsteps.
: )
love~ Layla
Takes one to know one, Layla
April 16, 2012 - 8:21am — goldieYes I agree, this is why our forum is effective because everyone on here has lived it.
God bless,
Goldie
Happy is good.
April 15, 2012 - 1:23am — Breakingfree24That was the difference for me, that Goldie has walked in our shoes. It was not like your traditional session where the PHD who only learned from text books and not practical knowledge. I spent thousands and years recovering from my first failed marriage to an alcoholic and made little progress because there was no real connection. It resolved nothing as I married another alcoholic only this one was a N to BOOT!
I got more in my two sessions with Goldie than in four years of therapy! I feel so blessed. The mods are so knowledgeable, and Goldie had him pegged and was able to draw out of me that it was not the Narc that was causing my pain but the unresolved wounds I still carried from my Narc cheating father and my alcoholic mother. Once I broke that floodgate and dealt with it, the rest seemed to make sense. I know he is bad, evil and worthless, never to change..no brainer! What I did not understand was the reason it hurt so bad and I still felt so much was my need from unresolved and wanting a family so bad was the real issue. Now I can enjoy the fact that he is gone, found new supply and if he comes Hoovering he is in for a big surprise.
I wish you the same peace I feel Layla! Its good to feel good again.
Love and much respect,
Kris
Perfectly said Layla! Thx
April 14, 2012 - 11:29pm — Janie53Perfectly said Layla!
Thx