I was d&d'd about 7 weeks ago after a 5 year relationship. I have had NC until I received a message from him today. Probably shouldn't have read it, but I did and actually found some humor in it. If I had any doubts that he was a Narc, I don't now. What do you think? I copied and pasted the first paragraph below.

***So... Ignore me then? I understand if so as I was the one guy that broke your heart... What's up with the fucking broken heart stuff anyway? Am I such a loss to women they must signify it with a broken heart or locked! I'm sorry...I'm fucking tripping. I seriously wish things didn't go the way they did and I fucking hate life most days... No response necessary, but please read...***

By way of explanation, my profile picture is a sacred heart, not a broken heart and in no way meant for the N. The rest of the email just rambles on and every sentence contradicts the one before it. I still have a ways to go, but 7 weeks ago I would have picked out all the nice things he wrote and ignored the rest!