I went NC with my Narc in 1999 (for a second time). I did not receive a hoover attempt until I got on FB in 2009. Contact was reestablished and lasted until Jan. 2012. Each time they suck you back in with their supernatural/evil skills, it's worse than before. I healed over those 10 years and became forgiving and thought I was strong enough to become FB friends with him. Nope. Just be careful and don't get too confident that you can handle contact with him if he tries to hoover after you feel you have recovered. Stay NC FOREVER. They have a manipulative dexterity almost equal to Satan himself.