My ex N owns a nightclub and is extremely handsome so I am sure he has gotten it every way he's wanted it...from the beginning he had trouble getting it up and he would say it ws from his medication...then he would tell me to do it anal and talk abot having threesomes all the time....he even said about my best friend...I would love to watch you do x and x to her laughing it off like he was joking. He started saying that I liked to have it late and he wanted it in the morning so that's why he wasn't turned on...then he would say "you won't have a threesome so I can't get turned on fantasizing because I know you won't do it." I felt like the ugliest woman in the world!! Aren't guys supposed to love when their girlfriends have a high sex drive??? Or do they get so insecure about their impotency that they start to resent you for wanting them to perform?? I'm friggin' confused !!!