dating men again rules

I feel I need to say this, because I discovered it too late. in normal relationships ( narcs and psychos aside) we women bring most of this confusion on ourselves by believing that men are complicated. They really arent. We all have shelves of self-help relationship books.
So for the next man who comes along...
heres the absolute rules for men.

If you feel unloved... youre right, he doesnt love you.

if you feel he doesnt treat you right... youre right, listen to your instinct. hes just not that into you. or hes a douche
leave before you get sucked in. you cannot change anyone.

If a man is really interested, he will show you, men are simple they will make a move, you shouldnt second guess them and chase them ever.

If your instinct thinks hes shady and unfaithful, he is ....dont wait to be degraded by finding out the gory details and listening to his bullshit and asshole excuses after you catch him out... too late youve lost perspective, youre too far in. too invested.

in a healthy relationship men should do the initial chasing and afterwards the calling mostly, even after youre engaged yes.

men who care, cant help it, they care and it shows!

I will never replace potential with reality again.