Divorce

Divorce
Posted February 22, 2012 - 10:04pm
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final today. It's finally over...three weeks from our 11th anniversary. Bittersweet I guess. The things I have learned: 1) You never really know anyone totally...and you're never too smart to be deceived 2)I have good instincts & should trust my own judgement, 3) never co-mingle funds, 4) prenups should be mandatory.

There is a part of me that wants him to be miserable. There is also another part of me who has pity for him. He threw away sooo much. I loved him & would've done almost anything I could for him. Our pets loved him. We had a comfortable life. He just tossed it to the wind as if it were dust.

Oh well, new chapter for me - onward & upward...

‹ He texted me A few posts have reminded me... ›
onwithmylife's picture

redhead

February 23, 2012 - 9:27am — onwithmylife

you sound like a strong and smart woman and i laughed at your 4 points you made, so true about a prenup and no co-mingle funds. i remember how bad the narc wanted to buy a house with me, I had more money than he did at the time and he got so mad when i went to a real estate lawyer to protect my assets, kept saying I did not trust him.Then another time i gave in to him and was not protecting my assets when we almost bought a house another time, God was really watching out for me.......

janemarie's picture

What is that I hear???

February 23, 2012 - 9:20am — janemarie

A SIGH OF RELIEF...........

Excellent news....now that the divorce is behind you, your recovery will be in high gear!!!

As you southern girls say....yeeee haaaaa!!!!

So happy for you!!!

xoxo

nomoredenial's picture

ahhhhh

February 23, 2012 - 12:52am — nomoredenial

I can imagine you have mixed feelings.....Congratulations for??/being done.. Mine was final the day before valentines. I know the relief.

I could have written what you wrote I was nodding my head saying YEP YEP AND YEP, we too had a comfotable life....im life what the hell??? Its SOOOOO MESSED UP all of it.

Im sorry you are going through it and glad that its done.

Run4it's picture

(((((((BIG HUG)))))))) Redhead

February 23, 2012 - 12:21am — Run4it

You are a precious woman and I know how that piece of paper makes you feel. I'm glad you are here with us all and be supported.

Onward and upward is the truth and the reality and you are getting so strong and are such a help to me. God bless you today and each and every day as you move forward.

Run4it

Jelickuk's picture

Bittersweet. Be kind to

February 23, 2012 - 1:21am — Jelickuk

Bittersweet. Be kind to yourself today x x