I am new to this forum. Kicked the SOB out 5 months ago. He will NOT leave me alone & it's been stressful, to say the least.
I am writing this because I have not seen much on here about the Narc's behavior with other women. I have read 10+ books, been all over the I-net, and also have talked to a therapist.......NO DOUBT WHATSOEVER that my husband is full-blown narcissistic ASSHOLE! In FACT, I first discovered all this info. after typing into my browser "husband totally changed after the wedding" & UP POPPED all this stuff about narcissism!!
Anyhow, I'm wondering how many of you have also experienced the N's flirty/constant ogling/touchy-feely/seductive behavior with OTHER women? My husband has NO boundaries with other women (actually, no boundaries with ANYONE except ME ie: trying to control me).
This asshole RUINS every "outing", vacation, just going out to dinner for heaven's sake, because his entire focus is on checking out every other woman in the room! OTHER women can do whatever they want with him (hug/kiss/rub his thigh/rub his back/press their body up against him....)& it's just "fine". I get ABSOLUTELY ZERO affection, compliments, praise, etc.... but any OTHER woman around he's "MR. CHARMING" & "MR. TOUCHY-FEELY"! TV shows, movies, etc.... only watches stuff with l/2 naked, l00% naked, raunchy sex, you get the idea. I have no less than 8 times found porn on the computer & he just insists it's "not mine"...."don't know how it got there"....."it just keeps coming & I can't get rid of it"....& on, & on, & on.............. PLEASE!!!!!
I have even a couple of times been awakened by HIM INSIDE ME! Having sex with me while I am ASLEEP! And when I tried to tell him this is F'D UP, it was ME who "has a problem"????????????WTF????????????????
Comments, input, HELP......please!!