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Oh fxxx broke NC backed into a wall
Snowflake
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Oh fxxx broke NC backed into a wall
Posted February 6, 2012 - 6:21pm
He has traced where I work, hub is MD, says I am sure he will be interested in our relationship. My hub has another first name so I know he has been checking up on me as he knew hubs name. Said text me K. So I panicked.
Fuck, shit scared now.
He then said lets meet clear the air, I just said not falling out with you but have no wish to meet anyone who treats me like you do.
He is now slagging my hub off telling me he is ugly.
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OK
February 7, 2012 - 3:47pm — Snowflakeafter a blip I am back on..
Weighed up the pros and cons of keeping in touch..
Pro..heads up as to his mindset
Con..it stops my recovery
Followed my friends advice which was to not antagonise so although I couldnt bring myself to answer his call when he text to ask how mum was I replied.
I said tired but shes fine thanks.
The f'ing asshole answered 'your welcome'
YOUR WELCOME!!!!!! This was MY MUM!!! Like he was doing me a favour.
So I text, I told him he is sick and NEVER to contact me again.
A big learning curve for me today girls and I know emotions got in the way/got scared BUT FUCK HIM
Not having anyone blackmail to meet
Not having anyone be so backhanded about my mum.
GO SCREW YOURSELF its NC now all the way forever.
Really mad, really am.
snowflake
February 7, 2012 - 4:13pm — UsedYOUR WELCOME!!!!!! This was MY MUM!!! Like he was doing me a favour.
HE DOES THINK HE IS DOING YOU A FAVOR....HE THINKS HE IS GOD....
When he says things like you know you want me, he means it!!!
I thought you knew this....they all think they are doing us a favor, by gracing us with their presence....thats why they think nothing of disappearing and then coming back as if nothing happened...
B/C WE ARE SUPPOSED TO BE FLATTERED THEY EVEN COME BACK....
THEY DONT THINK FOR ONE NANO SECOND THAT WE DONT WANT THEM....
NC IS THE ONLY WAY TO REALY GET THE POINT ACROSS...
IT SAYS..I DONT FUCKING WANT YOU ANYMORE....GOT IT NARC!!!!
He then said lets meet clear
February 7, 2012 - 8:57am — UsedHe then said lets meet clear the air, I just said not falling out with you but have no wish to meet anyone who treats me like you do.
Why did you say that to him, Its like you are telling him CLEAN UP YOUR ACT....and you will meet up with him....
I hope you block your EMAIL now......
As for his threats....ALL HOT AIR...
As for his....... YOU WANT ME YOU KNOW YOU DO...
THEY ALL COME OUT WITH THIS CRAP....
He's bluffing. It's called
February 6, 2012 - 8:17pm — Im_always_fineHe's bluffing. It's called blackmail. "Do this or I'll do that" "Call me or I'll tell"
They are COWARDS. That's why they emotionally bully women.
If you MUST text him. Tell him he's too late, that you beat him to it and you told your husband yourself(include a day....like "last Tuesday" for credibility). Say that he's mad but you are the luckiest women in the world because he wants to work things out.
Bullshit is 2 way street.
then Snowflake...NO CONTACT...BLOCK...DELETE.
brilliant
February 6, 2012 - 8:41pm — nlvr7great idea!
Sorry to......
February 6, 2012 - 8:16pm — fallingfowardto hear this happen with that creep. Know we are here to support you. Stay strong, amd resume nc.
Lots of hugs
balls
February 6, 2012 - 7:45pm — nlvr7eww...
I am confused
February 6, 2012 - 7:33pm — MovingforwardnowIf he was blocked from everything he wouldn't be able to contact you? I am just confused....... Don't respond anymore. NC all the way!
How did get hold of you?
February 6, 2012 - 6:40pm — FemmegemDon't panic chick....but don't react to to him no matter how vile or insulting. Its whst he wants. He wants you to feed him attention....NC! Where is h does he know?X
emailed
February 6, 2012 - 6:54pm — SnowflakeI then text, shit I just panicked :((((
Tell him to go away..You
February 6, 2012 - 7:13pm — HunterTell him to go away..You longer wish to speak to him. Tell him to go fuck with his wife and leave you alone..
He has a wife.. So tell him maybe his wife would like the same info..
Change your number .. How did he get thru?
Hunter
Its my fault
February 7, 2012 - 5:56am — SnowflakeHe emailed me and I read it, panicked so text him on my payg phone.
He wanted to meet me Wed to clear the air.
I said for all the reasons I said before about not caring about me I am not meeting.
He said fuck off out of my life then.
Then he said I do care idiot.
I just said look its like dealing with a 5 year old in a 50 year old body, not a great combination.
He said laughing, whatever.
Then he said anyway like I said I am sure 'hubs name' would be interested in our relationship.
(NB I should point out hub is known by second name, never told him first which means he has been checking up on me to know it as its a long distance relationship).
Btw hes ugly.
Look at him when ur fucking him wishing it was me. You carry on burying your head in the sand.
I just replied look my mum is in hospital I have a lot on my mind and I have no wish to fall out with you. I wish you all the best.
(didnt know what to do and didnt want to antagonise the situation).
He said ok I will be speaking to your hub in time, night x
Then he said are you still up?
My wish you all the best was my last text and havent replied.
What the fuck do I do please people, so scared. Hub doesnt know anything. I dont want to get into a slanging match.
He once said to me I want you, I always get what I want and you will be mine. Stupidly I took this as romantic but those words seem sinister now.
It was stupid to break NC, I am new to all this shit, I panicked x
Block him.. Change
February 7, 2012 - 8:50am — HunterBlock him.. Change everything..He won't tell your husband.. If you are serious then get serious..
And his wife??
Hunter
Thanks
February 7, 2012 - 9:58am — Snowflakefor the head straightner, I was all over the place. Feel much better after reading your replies, so much to lose.
Thanks a lot all of you, really mean that x