So yesterday was my birthday and I bumped into the narc in town and he ignored me.Fine.

Last night I went out with my friends and had a great time. Today I get home to a solicitors letter from him saying that he will agree to divorce me now but has set out the terms that he will agree to. There is nothing in there about the horrific way he treated me, the name calling, the abuse. Just basic points that any divorce could be processed through.

My head is messed up again and I feel awful. This was meant to break me today on my birthday weekend - he knows that I will be out with friends and having fun.

Why does he still try and do this to me?