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Narc going to Dominican Republic because of a woman
Isis
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Narc going to Dominican Republic because of a woman
Posted January 26, 2012 - 9:26pm
I was told my exNarc is going to be in the Dominican Republic, because of a woman he met via the Internet in 2008 or 2009. He will stay there for a week. Narc lives in the North of France. What kind of thing is this? Dominican woman (she looks like of high standard living, divorced with 3 children, knowing 3 languages) is happy to have sex with him for a week, saying men are to be shared and even quotes Dalai Lama to justify it.
Is this normal? Any thoughts?
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Stupid is as stupid
January 27, 2012 - 3:23pm — HunterStupid is as stupid does..
Hunter
LOL @ stupid is... Maybe she
January 29, 2012 - 11:04am — walking_on_sunshineLOL @ stupid is...
Maybe she just wants to get out of her country. Smart Latin woman who want to immigrate, pick out stupid N's to do this because they know that a stupid N will marry them easily and quickly. I think its every N's dream to find a woman who will tolerate him being shared no? I think shes just reeling him in with that one. I see my fathers Cuban girl doing it to him and he has no clue.
I don't know and now I don't
January 29, 2012 - 1:21pm — IsisI don't know and now I don't want it to be my business though it hurts knowing he was fast going to visit a "chica bella" as he was calling her, and especially knowing the two bastards have been in touch since at least 2008 or 2009.
I'm pretty convinced she knows well he is not going to marry her. What I believe is that she's the type of finding a man even if it's just something temporary. I don't think she minds. I've seen her photos all over the Internet (some on europeancupid.com) and she's an extremely well dressed woman, living an exciting life of radical sports, a very high standard of living. Knowing she lives in Dominican Republic, makes me suspecting of something else, but I'll keep it to myself. ;)
Well, if shes using him for
January 29, 2012 - 2:31pm — walking_on_sunshineWell, if shes using him for immigration, don't be surprized if a baby is the result of them having one week of sex.
Either way shes as bad as him, and they deserve one another. I cant believe a woman would say that to another woman, like as if shes just borrowing his penis or something. YUCK!
Shes a big N too and they deserve one another. Stay away from him, hes gross.
She's a nutter
January 29, 2012 - 3:14pm — IsisShe's 46, I doubt about a baby. And the immigration thing is a bit strange as well. I did some searches. She looks like upper class in Santo Domingo. She dresses luxury items. She has 3 kids (24-23-13). The youngest is on a private school (expensive) and the other boy is a photo model for fashion magazines. Maybe she would enjoy living in Europe just to get rid of her own country? I don't know.
What I really do believe is that she's someone with the same ideals of a Narc: live the moment with someone, it doesn't matter if that someone is also involved with more people, nothing. Note at how she said he was hers for a week, the rest of his life he could be mine - I say, no he can be hers, so that she will know what kind of crap she will have to deal with.
She's gross by words and he's gross by attitude.
Thanks for your thoughts
January 27, 2012 - 1:32pm — IsisYou're all so right. Of course let him go to mess with another woman, just fail to understand how they can start a relationship if she is in Santo Domingo and him in the North of France, near the Belgium border. It was really this message I received from that Dominican that messed up with my nerves:
"Charlie and I only are friends, we are going to have sex..for a week nothing more.. the rest of his life..is for you..
wish you the best..
kat"
What the heck does this woman think by sending me this? I didn't ask anything. I wish he gets a diarrea there and all the nice "sex week" goes down the toilet. As for the rest, they're good for each other and she didn't understand yet he's not going to be mine for the rest of his life. She can get him.
ibis
January 27, 2012 - 1:48pm — UsedAre you sure this message was from KAT and not HIM....
I cannot see any women writing that...but I can see a MAN who still wants to have a foot in the door writing it...
It was her
January 27, 2012 - 2:46pm — IsisThis message was sent by Kat (abbreviation for her 1st name) and I received it via Facebook. She knew who I was because during a lot of time we had the status on facebook, as in a "relationship" and she was already a friend of him of facebook. I had to block her and of course he's blocked too.
Two seconds I received that message, I got another one:
"from the 3 rd to the 10 of february I will eat each part of his body...even the bones..of course after his dick..
so..he is mine for a week... is yours for the rest of his life.."
ibis
January 27, 2012 - 3:45pm — UsedIf she is blocked on facebook, she shouldnt be able to send you a message....VIA ANYTHING FROM F/B...3rd -10th feb..... where is he now then?....why the dates?.... this doesnt SIT RIGHT WITH ME....I DONT KNOW WHY?...IT DOESNT MAKE SENSE...
Sorry, I didn't explain it
January 27, 2012 - 3:56pm — IsisSorry, I didn't explain it very well. She sent me that message because she was not (obviously) on my friend list and I never thought about blocking her. So, I blocked her after she sent me the messages.
It all started because my sister was also a friend of my exNarc on Facebook. I deleted him from my list after finding out about his affair in his own city. My sister stayed listed as a friend. Then, she saw something that Kat has posted, flirting with him. My sister reacted and then, that Kat started to send me those messages. But, before sending those messages to me, she has left several comments on his facebook addressed to my sister saying "relax, I'm just a friend and live in a far distant island". My sister blocked him too after this incident.
Editing to add: those messages weren't sent today. It all happened on the 16th January. Today I simple had to vent here.
It's sounds terrible but she
January 27, 2012 - 4:01pm — HunterIt's sounds terrible but she will get hers.. Of that I'm sure..
When I was involved with narc number 1 I always felt sorry for his OW.. Same with the Dog Whisperer..
For her to shove it up your butt like that.. She deserves what she gets..
Hunter
LOL.... That is the trouble
January 27, 2012 - 3:59pm — UsedLOL....
That is the trouble sometimes with the written word it can get confusing.... all still very shitty behaviour......
Block that bitch too.. She
January 27, 2012 - 3:28pm — HunterBlock that bitch too..
She can have him and all the disease he will bring her..
Hunter
ibis
January 27, 2012 - 3:00pm — UsedWHAT A WICKED COW....
I TRULY HOPE THAT SHE GETS HER COMEUPPANCE....I REALY DO....
THIS MADE ME FEEL SICK....SO GODS KNOWS HOW YOU MUST FEEL...THATS TERRIBLE..
2 VAMPIRES TOGETHER....
Only therapy was been saving
January 27, 2012 - 3:13pm — IsisOnly therapy was been saving me and all the meds i hava to take: anti-depressants, anxyolytics, sedative-hypnotics. It's a nightmare.
But there's more OWs. That is the one from Dominican Rep. There's another one in another city of France, and one in his city too. He's a Brit expat living in France.
That confirms it - psychopath
January 27, 2012 - 2:58pm — midnight7That confirms it - psychopath Ns from la la land. Forget this psycho rubbish she's pushing - they are evil. Let's hope they go for a swim and both get eaten by the nearest shark.
Isis - this is no longer your life - thank goodness!
NC = control, well-being, happiness, peace.
How did she get your contact
January 27, 2012 - 1:40pm — midnight7How did she get your contact details? What sort of person would send a message like this? She has the right name Kat - meow/hiss. They deserve each other. Delete, forget. Like all N's they are from La la land - which is why we don't go there any more.
NC = sanity and freedom.
Kat
January 27, 2012 - 2:48pm — IsisKat comes from her real name... (may God forgive me for putting her name here).
do you want me to take her
January 27, 2012 - 2:54pm — Useddo you want me to take her name off...
If you think it's better to
January 27, 2012 - 3:02pm — IsisIf you think it's better to remove her name, it's ok.
there may be thousands with
January 27, 2012 - 3:08pm — Usedthere may be thousands with the name...but only ONE AS EVIL AND SPITEFUL AS HER!!!!!!!!!!!!1
I HOPE SHE ROTS IN HELL....
Honey..just let him go over
January 27, 2012 - 10:16am — RedheadHoney..just let him go over there. They can just swing with everbody they want, as long as you're left out of it.
Isnt it better the futher he
January 26, 2012 - 9:46pm — matahariIsnt it better the futher he goes? if my ex N husband went to mars it would not be far enough. and better still with a prossy that had herpes.....who cares! Narcs are pricks with no conscience...please dont waste your energy on trying to understand this.xx
My stbxh pulled a similar
January 26, 2012 - 11:02pm — lana22My stbxh pulled a similar stunt with me. While we were dating, he took a trip to columbia to meet a woman on an internet dating site that featured women from South America. He told me he would be going away for the weekend to drill with his army unit. He ended up being gone for over a week and after investigating his home and computer, found out where he was. Can you believe I still took him back after he returned home crying about how he messed up and I could never believe how horrible his life has been and blah blah blah blah blah!!!!! Looking back now, I know supply was at its lowest and he wanted an adventure. Trust me they will do anything for supply. Nothing satisfies them......not even a trip to another land. That too was short lived and he still is a miserable person looking for something that does not exist.