The second I laid eyes on him I wanted him all to myself-at any cost,apparently!This was about 15 years ago. He was much more charming than he is now. Now he's a pathetic old man that many people don't want to be around. He tries and rarely succeeds in reeling new fish in. They're out there, though. He will find them.
I'm trying to figure out exactly what was wrong with me for staying in this sick, sado-masochistic relationship as long as I did. I feel a little better knowing I may not be alone in this quest! I'm so grateful to have found this site. I feel like I may be strong enough(this time)to resist my ex-narc.