Just wanted to share this with everyone.
When My narc husband left me, he blamed me for everthing that went wrong, he moved to the university halls where he is a lecturer and moved his things bit by bit then started looking down at where i live, saying things like 'dont you think this flat is very small?gosh he only lives in halls?hardly palacial!This bed is too hard...this quilt is too thin...he complained about everything the last week he came home. He stopped paying his part of the rent months earlier and for everthing else, left me and the dog in financial stress.
Well here is where it gets better....I sold the engagement ring and bought myself a nice little car and now have money in the bank!!when he was with me he made sure I was trapped with the dog...no car, no money...trapped...wey hey
I am so much better off with out him. I have the confidence now to do it on my own after years of being told im useless.(bear in mind I was a successful business woman when i met him)I am starting to venture out again on my own and i know i will make it.It is still painful though to think I lost all that for someone who never loved me....that swine.......This experience has tought me to love myself and for once I do. I have also now set bounderies for everyone in my life cos before I was a soft touch now i find the bounderies easy to set and i feel so much better for it. so some good has come out of being with such an ass. love you all xxxxxxxx