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so now what?!? I have a beautiful beautiful third baby girl to a man I had to place a restraining order on when I was 20weeks pregnant (it was a mutual conscious conception but i would never have conceived had i known he was lime it underneath) ) the order goes off in June next year ... I have Healed n processed n healed n processed.he took my whole support network n community and I have moved interstate now so it's just me and my kids. I've analyzed it enough to understand his primal wounds and I DO, very well (kinda the reason it happened in the first place) but.....now what? I am at a wall as to how to approach my daughters future with this
so called wonderful man!! we've just bought a pedigree male German shepherd pup for her to grow with n all I can do is hope m guide her instincts and self defense I guess..he is a mastermind at human manipulations, he is an adoptee so his insanity is very deep! is there anyone out there in a similar position to me? I would love some advice on keeping my girl safe!!! I know eventually it's going to happen but I so fear that relationship building and for very good psychological reason !
regards n blessings
selki
Selkin
December 4, 2011 - 2:05pm — HermesI can only hope that if this individual tries to contact you again and cause trouble that you can obtain a new restraining order. Or, hopefully, he will not find out whre you are now living.
Or, with some luck, he may just disappear and never look you up again. Things must have been very bad indeed if you had to obtain a restraining order.
It is not good for children to have contact with or be influenced by NPDs or other PDs. So I truly hope you never see or hear from this individual ever again.
Take care
Hermes
yes so do I... al the classic
December 4, 2011 - 6:20pm — Selkinyes so do I... al the classic signs (that I ignored) were there from very beginning. reading lisas book was like reading the experience all over again. I guess now I am just rebuding my self esteem and being a happy healthy mum for my kiddies. just in icolation.