I thought I was getting over her. It's been 3 months yesterday since the break up, and I thought I was doing good until I started decorating my Christmas tree today and found some of "our" ornaments. I miss her so much sometime I want to call her, but number one, I know she's bound to be with someone else, and two, there's no way I'd get back with her anyway. So why do I still obsess over her????? Is it just the fact of not being with someone after ten years? Is it because I love her so much? Or is it just that I became so codependent on her I'm having a hard time detaching? If anyone can relate to these thoughts and feelings I sure would appreciate any comments.