I'm a year and a half out, sticking with the NC thing and doing good. I avoid many situations to not run into him but live in a small town so I'm very careful where I go and at what time.
The other day, I was getting in my car in a parking lot, and he pulled in right in front of me. The front grills on our cars were almost head to head. Heart racing, I quickly backed out as he got out of his car.
Out of the corner of my eye, I saw him waving his hand slowly, cautiously back and forth, keeping his hand waist-high only, trying to catch my attention. I ignored him, didn't look directly at him and quickly drove off.
I sensed he was looking for a reaction...anything, me waving back or me, giving him the finger. Either way, I would have been right back in his web or looking like the crazy one. Aren't they clever???
Yes, this was a creepy experience but after, I felt powerful.
No Contact is the only way!!