Wisdomneeded's Story
Wisdomneeded's Story
Yep... that is why I never shared my story before. I always felt silly that I was not the immediate victim - My Daughter is. But the issues that ensued as a result of her relationship with the N almost destroyed her and the relationships she had with everyone around her.
When the one girl posted that her sister had committed suicide on Tuesday it hit me like a ton of bricks - as the mom of a child who had a relationship with someone with NPD I kept thinking that could have been my daughter. It is such a helpless feeling. The SOB of a Narc used to talk to me so I would encourage her to give him a second chance. The evil surrounding them is unbelievable. Sometimes my daughter will say....I really do not get how someone could be so evil to people.
I am not sharing the entire story, but I woke up feeling the need to share one. I woke up shaking my head about the whole damn thing.
My daughter was 17 and the N had just turned 19...he lived about 15 minutes away in a dorm (that would be the one my daughter begged him to get because of his enmeshment to his mom). Living in the typical midwest region our winters are pretty lousy so we had a blizzard a few days before. A FEW DAYS MEANS - streets were clear. Not perfect, but if we were waiting for that it would be spring.
The N wanted to see my daughter so he dug out his car and drove over for a visit. WUH! OH! his mom made a surprise visit at the dorm to drop off a gallon of milk. She made it through the security doors and waited anD knocked on his actual dorm door to get his attention.
That is when his cell phone started to ring...the story he eventually told his mom was that he went into the men's bathroom on his floor and FELL ASLEEP....SERIOUSLY? What the hell. What 19 year old boy has to tell his mom that.
Of course what ensued was a massive D & D with my daughter. Every SINGLE TIME HE LIED TO HIS MOM HE TOOK HIS VIOLENT ANGER OUT ON MY DAUGHTER....
He could have just told my daughter I promised my mom I would not drive in this weather - mind you this is the boy who has been having sex since he was 14 years old. Taking the virginity from at least 4 girls.
HMMMMMMMMMMMM! BET HIS MOM DOES'T KNOW THAT...driving in the snow is dangerous well what he is doing to young women is MORE!
I'm sorry to hear that the N
how is your daughter now? I
thank you for asking Sparrow ~
Read the book "when's he
Hunter and Goldie