I thought I would share this brilliant article with everyone because on first reading it, so many of the things that were stated reminded me of my relationship with my ex N ...

Sometimes when I'm feeling low or depressed or have thoughts running through my head that it's my fault or I wasn't good enough or I really miss him and maybe he is the one for me ... I go back and read this. It reminds me of the CRAP that I put with and what I don't deserve which none of us beautiful, intelligent and strong women deserve

http://counsellingresource.com/lib/therapy/self-help/loser/