Narcissism, Promiscuity, and STD's
Narcissism, Promiscuity, and STD's
One thing I haven't read a lot of on this forum is threat of STD's. As we all are trying to wrap our brains around their behavior, I can't fathom how they don't all of an STD of some kind or another!
I was with my N about 5 months...mostly long distance and, of course, an affair. He shared a lot with me as we both had primary relationships. He is 46 and divorced 2 years (25 year marriage). He did tell me he was not faithful in his marriage (multiple times). During the 5 months we talked, I knew of at least 6 women he was with sexually that he told me about. (One of them told me she met him on a dating website. No surprise. I knew him in high school and we reconnected on FB. He also had dated several women through his workplace (large federal government office in 2 large cities).
So...I can't even image how many women they are with in a lifetime. Also, I read how they don't want to wear condoms. Mine didn't as I was "naive" and he only shared more about his "dating life" with me after we were together one time.
Just curious, how do you deal with this? Are you successful in making them wear condoms? Are they just as deceitful as mine and not tell you their whole story until after you've been together?
I dated mine for 3 years and
N's, condoms and std's
I am so OTT about STD checks
my N wears condoms NOW
Holy crap! Let me guess...
No Condom
liar and no condoms
Young Narc
No Condom.......
safe sex?
Caved In Eventually
I was a total fool. Believed
They are deceitful in