Realization!!!!!!!!!!!!
Realization!!!!!!!!!!!!
A day of clarity! Today I realized that my almost 18 year old daughter so filled with compassion and forgiveness NEVER WOULD HAVE ENDED THE RELATIONSHIP WITH THE NARC.
So I thanked GOD for the D&D that the N put her through. Was it horrific...you bet, did she think she was losing her mind...yes she did. Did I think I was losing my mind???? Yes, because the N had used me in the past to help patch things up between them.
But today I realized without the D&D she would have kept on forgiving him and taking him back. It had been that way for 8 months of insanity.
The D & D as HORRIFIC AS IT WAS became a necessary tool to end the cycle of abuse.
She has been NC for 2 months and yesterday (yes I am crying) I saw her soul beginning to come back. PRAISE GOD!
Hugs and prayers to all of you making this journey!
Soapergirl& wisdomneeded
insightful!
woops Sorry!
That is really great news
Awwwww
Sweet Michelle...
Wow what a powerful post .
Thanks Scoop...
We need to educate our daughters on NARC red flags
So Strange
OH Wow!
Strangely...
Sounds like you have a healthy streak in you
Well, he still used all of my
No surprise
Mine didn't do any of these things either
I feel foolish that I fell for it!
RED FLAG EDUCATION
How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved
So Appreciate....
What sold me on this book was...
Be Prepared
Yes....
Some friend!
So Kind...