At a crossroads......Advice please:)
At a crossroads......Advice please:)
I signed up here over a year ago....and it was the BEST thing I ever could have done for myself.
Everyone here has offered such support and wisdom and understanding.....don't know what would have come of me had I not found this site. Honestly. To feel like u aren't alone and you aren't the only citizen of the "crazy world"... you know what I mean, I think.
This past year I felt stronger, then broke NC and had a setback of my own doing, but then got back up again and got back on track.
There is no longer a doubt in my mind about what type of personality I was dealing with...a Narcissist..or some other PD with narc traits. Whatever. He was toxic and abusive and not normal.
Is there a time....when a person should step away from this?
I've done my work, and sure there is always room for more work and improvement but....I no longer come here for validation of what he is OR for what *I* am for that matter....
I read here daily and sign on pretty much every day.....is that ok?
I mean to me, I feel the narc/abusive relationship is part of who I am today...I'm not ashamed of it, I am proud of what I have survived/overcome..but should I still be giving time and attention this part of me...even if it is in my past ( lol I hope it is just in my past!)
Am I keeping my past alive by being here?
Advice/thoughts?.....
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