So, I thought I was healing, getting better. I have gotten over my divorce from my N.
Then I had a falling out with my friend of 20 years, who treated me badly, was and is selfish. Since the falling out she has attempted to contact me several times. Once, via text message, which i responded to via phone and message. No response. Then again, a few weeks later, another text. I responded via text. No response. One more time via instant message, again I responded. Again, no answer. So I decided that she wanted to be passive aggressive. And i needed to let it go. But this weekend I discovered she unfriended me on Facebook. We were not really talking, but it still hurt. The issues we have all stem from something she did, to me. I was too nice, too accommodating. I decided her behavior was always selfish and I was better off if she was not an active part of my life. Why do I care that she infriended me? It hurts my feelings. Like I am being punished, even tho I did not do anything. Why do i care that someone so selfish, who had no regard for my feelings, is hurting me once again. I am confused.