I know enough about this other girl to know she is most likely a TRUE psychopath, who no normal person could be happy with. But what about my ex N??? Sam Vaknin says its possible for a somatic and a cerebral to have a stable lasting relationship as long as they are opposites. She is dumb as bricks and clearly a somatic but my ex is mainly cerebral with a somatic side that emerges from time to time. IT makes me very sick to imagine them lasting!