Update: So Predicatable. So Arrogant. So hurtful. The lies of Narc-Face

Update: So Predicatable. So Arrogant. So hurtful. The lies of Narc-Face
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I posted a few days ago that after breaking NC and seeing the Narc-Face and having a wonderful day talking about the future, marriage, etc, he disappeared. Well, as predictable as gravity, he called me on Friday. I can't tell you how upset I was. His V/M msg said.... "Hi, I didn't fall off the face of the planet, I've just been busy doing this and that, and so on. I just wanted to call instead of emailing just to see how you are. I'm going to see my daughter now in "city" so I will be around. I also want to tell you what's going on with the property we own, so call if you want or when you can". Then the Narc-face leaves a text two hours later saying.."How's it going". I was so angry. In his stupid V/M msg he acknowledges that he dropped out. And for some reason, his voice sounded so nervous. It was so weird. He tripped over his words, like a scared kid. His daughter is getting married this month, who knows, maybe it's today. And I felt so sad he didn't invite me. I did NOT call back of course. His message was so insensitive and distant. I had to respond in some way because of the property situation. So, I sent him a very "indifferent" and "distant" email just saying..." Do what you want with that property situation and my business manager will take care of it. Send your daughter my best wishes. You were a good father. I wish I could have been there with you and her for that special moment".

Of course, he didn't respond. I am so curious how he will respond, because we all know that eventually, he will (after he finishes wiping down his junk, LOL) I will NEVER see him again. After 5 years of this BS, I think I have been kicked in the head enough. I think what got to me the most was how he said he was just "too busy doing this and that". Ugh.... he is too busy because of "this and that". What the F*#k is this and that? The arrogance is actually comical. He has time for his bimbos, but for me, he's just too busy?? Oh please, I am done!! I think that the blood in his body has actually reversed itself and went from his pecker to his head and exploded the tiny little blood vessels wrapped around his narc brain.

These men will never change. It finally took that line..."this and that and so on". What arrogance. And he still didn't even respond to my sweet email back about his daughter. It's like the line in the song...'He's out of my life"...."I don't know whether to laugh or cry, I don't know whether to live or die, but it cuts like a knife, he's out of my life". xoxo ACgirl

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ACGirl

Yep.
"Can I come along to Eric's first day of school?"
"xoxo"
"When is Eric's baptism (at MY church)?"
"I love you."
"Can I come to Eric's kindergarten graduation?"
"xoxo"
"Can we have a birthday party for Eric?"
"WE already had his birthday party."
That last one literally made me sick and vomiting for three days.

The exclusion from their families and children: that was one of the worst things of all. Not "getting in" to the family circle, and that he would rather have his little brother be his child's surrogate mother than the woman who is an actual mother and has loved him for four years--AND who was supposed to adopt him with him. Of course, having BOTH of us there is not an option, it's got to be the person in one compartment, or the person in the other.

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Ac girl

They do not change! I can't reiterate that enough. Mine came back 15 years later. He is exactly the only his narc traits are worse than before. Don't be surprised if this man doent turn up years later out of the blue apologizing to you and telling you he has changed and that he has always loved you but atleast you are armed with information about who and what he is.