and it's taking so much will power to not text him back and give him a piece of my mind, but I know that's exactly what he wants...for him any reaction is better than none at all, but I'm not giving him that satisfaction.

I know in order for me to get him off my back and do what's best for me is to block his daughter's cell phone number, but I'm not ready to deal with the smear campaign that will follow if I do...nor do I want his daughter to hate me for blocking her number and for all our friends and family to begin believing his lies...none of them will understand.

Here are some of his msgs:

IF NOTHIN ELS, I DONT HAVE TO STRESS ABOUT U MAKING ME INSECURE WHEREVER U/US GO ANYMORE N HOW U (SECRETLY SPONG UP) ATTENTION. THANKS. WHILE UR AT IT CHG THAT TOO "MISS PERFECT", HE WILL APPRECIATE IT R HES AN IDIOT.

HATE N DEPIZE ME TILL U GET UR FILL N WHEN UR DONE DO IT SOME MORE JUST TO MAKE SURE U DID...I'M SO PROUD OF WHAT U BECAME, U MUST BE TOO....R U?

I KNOW U MISS ME/OUR FRNDS/PLACES WE GO/HANGING OUT WITH/TALKING TO ME ON THE PHONE/MY VOICE/SEEING ME/VISITING/BEING WITH/MAKING LOVE THE WAY WE DO/THE LOVE WE SHARED N OUR LIFE TOGETHER, ETC., BUT U CHOOSE TO TORCHER URSELF N ME WITHOUT GIVING ME A CHANCE...THINK ABOUT THAT BABE, WHY? I LOVE U.

DONT FEEL BAD, ITS REALLY NOT UR FAULT THAT UR RELATIONSHIPS NEVER LAST, U JUST FALL OUT OF LOVE EVER SO OFTEN N HAVE TO CHANGE PARTNERS...I UNDERSTAND.