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I am trying NC today and trying is all I can do....I really can get him areested but I do not want to do that. I came home from work (he was here getting ready to leave to go to work) we had very little words. In short he is on my cell phone plan and he went and got a new phone yesterday because I turned his off. It will cost me 175 to take him off and if he doesnt give it back (which he wont) then that 499 on top of the 175.. SO,
MY TEXT:
that it wasn't cool to stick me w 599 cell bill
HIS TEXT:
"Well, you havent been decent at all and done some nasty things. I can be decent and be your friend or this can be more nasty then you can imagine. U choose"
My Text:
Yes, I did! I ultimatly did the right thing tho. I wouldn't stick you with bills.
HIS TEXT:
Walking into work now, please try to remember we did have good times and some point we did love each other and each others company. I have to go.
WHAT THE HELL DOES THAT LAST TEXT MEAN??? I didnt answer...I'm trying not to.
He says things
September 6, 2010 - 7:36pm — wholeagainJust to say them, and maybe he means them for like, one second?
It doesn't really matter what you say or don't say though. He's going to play by his own twisted rules any way you slice it. He hasn't proved able to toe the line with anything else, I can't see how this would be any different.
Sometimes NC can mean deciding to cover bills if possible, if doing so can help things stay sane. I know your financial situation is real tight right now so that's tricky. Any attention is good attention to them.
Hang in there girl!
Mine said that to me too you
September 6, 2010 - 7:27pm — sparky2009Mine said that to me too you know we had some good times I said who are you trying to fool ? NO! we didn't it was complete hell living with you ... he had nothing to say after that.
sparky
September 6, 2010 - 7:49pm — allthatglittersMine too! Same exact thing... we had some really good times together. Ugh, they really are all the same. Amazing.
they are all the same
September 6, 2010 - 7:53pm — blueeyesWhat should I say? I need his phone so I simply said I need it back pls. He didn't answer. Should I say "we didn't have love it was hell and thatis all I know"?
Trust, then verify~