WOW! I had heard that song before, but never really listened to the words...because I had not really had a relationship with a NARC before now...but NOW...I can really relate to it...coupled with the video, it really illustrates exactly in a mini vignette...the cycle of a relationship with a NARC and makes sense, especially for those of us who have had relationships with these life blood sucking pathological men.

I have a few others I like too. Another favorite is 'Cowboy Casanova' sung by Carrie Underwood...it is a good song about a Narcissistic man (and a woman warnng other women about him)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oM7NQQ0Lfu4&ob=av3e

also by Rhianna 'Take a Bow':

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J3UjJ4wKLkg

Forget love - I'd rather fall in chocolate!

Funny, but this was written by a guy. His first name is "joshri" (i think that's how he says hi) I've spoken with him by email a couple of times. He has a website and a face book page. He's a songwriter in South Africa I believe.

White Town is a project band (I think he had something to do with them getting together) and that song was really popular in the states about 10 or so years ago. Interestingly enough, i had just put it up on my stumbleupon page because I wanted to hear it again. and that's when i noticed it's "signature" them. But until Lisa mentioned watching the video and how at the end "she chooses indenpendence" i had NEVER noticed how the video was set up. Cool huh!

That could be our war cry?

Lisa Marie

Wow, this is brilliant. I love how at the end, she goes for knowledge and independence! Great video! Thanks for sharing!