What an arrogant pig!!!!! He knows he's too good for most people? He doesn't find you repulsive? Gee what a prince--NOT.

I'm with your mom on this one. He would do this to anyone he dated, this is not about you and nothing involving him ever will be about you. This is aaaaall about him, oh and his projection on you about loneliness? It might be kinda lonely when you think you're too good for most people.

Please Ms. Alibi, stop letting this weenie mess with your mind. Go NC so you can start to see clearly. For now, read this as if your best friend were relating her story to you, or one of us. How would it read to you then?

He's pathetic, pathetic, pathetic.

It will stop hurting after you stop exposing yourself to his bulls**t. It takes time and you have to stick with NC but I promise it gets better and one day you'll see things in a totally different light.

What a complete freaking weirdo. How do they stand there and hear themselves SAY this bullsh*t to people? Can you imagine saying crap like that to someone?
Believe me, honey, I know what you're feeling. But you have got to listen to how nuts he is.
Mine rationalized lying to his girlfriend of three years to take his five year old foster child to sleep with another woman for a week--all in the same bed together! He said he "got scared." When you get scared, you back off a little or a lot, you don't get into bed with a woman and a child two thousand miles away, while calling on the phone promising to come home and propose.
My point is, I don't care if you had a threesome with his sister and his mother in his own bed while telling him to screw himself. You cannot rationalize or make excuses for the unbelieveable crazy CRAZY stuff that came out of his mouth. Normal people simply do not stay stuff like that. He is severely disconnected in his mind. He sounds actually schizophfrenic, really scary. Please don't talk to him anymore, please, please, please! You sound somewhat mnore unstable than after your last contact. Don't let it happen again!

This the worst narcisstic bullshit I ever heard.

Yes you fell off the NC wagon, I did thousand times, there is no way to get better by looking back and beating yourself up, and there is no way getting better by hoping you'll get a decent closure by him. Dont get me wrong yesterday I did the same, in a weak moment I texted him. It is too awfull to write it down yet. But I decided after that, that from now on I am not going to look back ever.

It is done, they all are saying the same shit, I care, I cant commit blahblahbla. It is NOT you, it is them. This is coward crazy avoidant behaviour, toying with feelings. And no way you are ever going to feel better with him - ever.

GO NC. Yes you were a fool, I was too. So what? You didnt lose anything, but a bullshit talking ass. Is there anything you can do today to distract yourself?

I am going to paint today. And I made a vow, that I am not looking back again to him or to my behaviour with him. It was doomed from the first minute. These are mindf**k players.

Hugs!