Still sad but striving to get a new job, had interview and now second interview wish me luck

Still sad but striving to get a new job, had interview and now second interview wish me luck
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I went for an interview for a new job, so excited, they want to interview me again. I bit the bullet and decided to paint on a smile and be the person i should be, so as to hopefully land this job, the money is good and the hours are perfect, so everyone wish me luck. I hope my feelings of obsession will lessen while i work full time, pls tell me it will help. I wont be able listen to so much of his bullshit, and maybe it can be the start of nc. i dont know, i miss him today, i still love the illusion but i know he is no good and he is toxic for everyone.........i just want to stop wanting a life that didnt exist..............

lisalisa47's picture

Hey Jaycee, Good luck with

Hey Jaycee,

Good luck with that job. I have a feeling you will get it. Just remember that EVERYTHING happens for a reason. You may be meant for that job because you will meet a friend who will offer you some insight that is yet to be realized, OR you may be getting that job so YOU can help someone else with ANOTHER problem that has nothing to do with your dilemma.

AND, on the off chance that you don't get THIS job, it may be the doorway to another one you were meant to have.

So just try to roll with it, that's what i am trying to do, but it's hard - because when you've invested all that time in someone who USED to be there as your prince, you keep waiting for him to return - and vanquish the Black Knight who took his place. I know this personally.

You will be fine, and you have us.

Love

Lisa Marie

jaycee's picture

interview went great, already called me for second interview

the interview went great, already called me for a second interview for tomorrow so wish me luck, luck, luck, now maybe i can move onto bigger and better.........im excited, scared, and hoping my heartache doesnt ruin anymore of my life.............so excited, please hope they hire me on spot tomorrow.........i need this job.....i need independence. thanks everyone.......

betty2020's picture

This is great NEWS!! Good

This is great NEWS!! Good luck hun, i know you will nail the interview. Shifting from contact to no contact is a process. I will tell you this much; as you gain knowledge you also gain power. The two coincide and this happens on a subconscious level. In time this is what allows us to finally make the break. Some make this transition quickly and others take longer. We are all striving for the same goal and timing isn't as important as reaching your destiny. Even the tortoise wins the race as long as he stays on his path right? (just reference not calling you a tortoise..lol) Again it is a process and it is about always keeping yourself in forward motion. Your headed in the right direction...xoxo

only one way to go...Forward (tm?)

aceonelady's picture

go for it jaycee....

You can already be proud of yourself....YOU ARE WORTH IT !good luck,everyday is a new day....HUGHS

kiwi10's picture

it will help!

i can't tell you how much easier it is now that school started again for me, and you're very brave to take the steps you need to to feel better and take care of yourself! we all know how NOT easy it is to get your ass up and go to school or work or job inerviews with a heavy heart so good for you!!!

Used's picture

jaycee

good luck, good luck, good luck. oh and good luck. love xxxxxx

terri's picture

Go get em!

Good luck and go get em! You can do this and just focus on you and what YOU want to make of your life.

Believe in yourself!
Terri

MovinOnUp's picture

Great News!!!

Good luck with that second interview, Jaycee.

Got my fingers and toes crossed for you!