The creepiest thing is that even if he knew he had a disease he wouldn't believe it. Just like he didn't believe I was no longer fertile because we had waited too long to get pregnant. "Oh, honey, you're young. I'll let you know when I'm ready to have a baby. It will be fine."

Just went to Planned Parenthood last week. Going in for the results on the HIV later in the week, but no call today = negative on the rest. Thank goodness.

Not worried about the HIV so much. He took care of himself very well, I suspect. After all, it is all about him.

Nevertheless, I will be happy to know.

I have also decided to be abstinent until I get engaged. In a healthy relationship. A healthy wonderful relationship.

Sex can wait - masturbate! :P

There are indeed very few ways to prove that he knew he was infected.

A girl I knew in college picked up a guy in a bar one night when we went out. He had been talking to me at one and of the bar, and I blew him off...something creepy about him. He later started talking to my friend, turned out they were from the same childhood neighborhood... and they had sex that night.

He called her the next morning and said cryptically..."hope u like my present..." and hung up on her.

A short while later that month, she got violently ill and was diagnosed with herpes.

Luckily...and I say that loosely, she knew his name, knew he had been in the military, and was able to sue him based on his medical records there showing he had been diagnosed years earlier.

Something like that...a doctor bill, pharma records, etc. Can objectively show a connection.

Not easy.

I am 52 yrs old and have never had any STD disease. Until this year! It's not bad enough they cheat on us but then do it w/o protection. They are as bad as the skanks they are with! He gave me an STD that he denied and said "well how do I know who've you've been w/ in the last 2 yrs?" (Had not been w/anyone except him in over 4 yrs.)I told him & his mom if there was any other SOBs name I could turn into the state believe me I would. His was the only one!Told him he was going to be responsible for the med bills cuz if we had we been in a monogamous relationship...like i believed or had he got tested the yr before I would NEVER have gotten an STD! Had over $1100 in medical bills. Sent him a certified letter stating this and never got a response. I then decided F HIM! I'll bite the $1100 med bill. Knowing he would NEVER own up to it anyway.
He thinks he got away w/something. LOL!
He doesn't realize I got away from him!
Oh and I contacted a lawyer about this. Was told unless he KNEW he had an STD and purposely gave it to me there wasn't a damn thing I could do about it. And we know a N will never admit to doing any wrong.