I am ashamed of myself
I am ashamed of myself
Working with him is making this impossible. He has been contacting me since last Friday pretty regular at work and I am as guilty because I find myself responding .. and like a broken record, rehashing the same things that we have gone over countless times. Things he will NEVER acknowledge. Am I hoping for a break-thru? An AH-HA moment?? Yesterday I even initiated contact a couple of times because I felt so desparate and lonley for him. I miss his touch and the way it feels when he holds me .. they are usually the only moments when things feel right. anyways .. we even talked about meeting after work but that was a fight because whe couldn't agree when/where. ha I thought about him all night and couldn't sleep .. Sooooo .. I saw him this morning and we were together .. (sorry for TMI) As usual it was intense, and I was filled with love and pointless hope for a moment. I cried and he held me and asked "Why did we ever let this go?" So, here I sit ... having undone everything I have been fighting to get back. Feeling sick .. mostly in my heart because I realize or feel that maybe I will never be free. He is like an addiction that I can not shake. Sometimes I think I am just addicted to the sex and his touch. I am 42 and had never had intimacy like we have. I fear I will never find it again. I feel totally crazy and out of control. also .. a sidenote .. I am reading "Matters of the Heart" By Danielle Steel .. and the guy in this book is my N to the T. Wierd ..
all arrows point to him lately. :-(
Not your fault
Ashamed
When you are going through hell, keep going...
Don't knock yourself
thanks
excellent quote
trying2overcome
Lisa, you are a true gift....
Monica
You are so right....
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I understand how you feel. I
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
I remember a few things on this
Im 44
smileyfacepr
It is a total addiction. The
stayingstrong78
A few interactions with him
Ditto staying strong78.
Peace. J