so much for your kind words. I'm sorry to hear you are also experiencing difficulties.

Since I posted my first comment yesterday (new to this site) things have gone from bad to worse. I think he may have intentionally given me a STD. Ever since the breast cancer diagnosis I only eat fresh organic foods and go out of my way to maintain a really healthy lifestyle, something he didn't like. I was never much of a drinker and I never smoked. I take such good care of myself and assumed that I would never get sick. But here I am, sick in spite of it all. As of early this morning, I'm having unusual vaginal pains that I've never before had, and an awful discharge that's also quite unusual for me to have. I now feel more certain he was with another woman and that I caught something awful. He knows I'm concerned about STD's as we've had conversations about him not cheating, especially since I still have a compromised immune system from the breast cancer recovery. What a monster. Intentionally giving me some disease especially because he knew I was going through so much effort to heal and he did NOT like my ultra healthy life-style. So, this was his way of getting even. The fact that he was annoyed by my healthy choices, that in itself was a big hint something was clearly wrong with him. What kind of a person wouldn't support a woman recovering from BC in her quest to heal AND what kind of a monster would be so revengeful and thoughtless and careless. POS. Also, I saw his profile on Match dot com late last night. Something, maybe intuition, told me to start investigating. One does not need a paid membership to view photos, only to view the profile details and to correspond. So, I did a quick free search and saw his photo and it said "active". What's he doing on a singles dating site if he's not cheating. Liar. If I could leave today, I would. This is Hell. I have not slept in 2 days and my heart is pounding. Thanks again. Jana