Ex N has been such a shithead to our two D's over the last year that neither of them want to see him. Last time they did they refused to speak to him or hug him. Ex N through a hissy fit just like a three year old and stormed off saying 'I can't take this anymore'.

Next day I get a text from him saying he thinks it would be best if he didnt see the girls at the moment, he said he loves his D's and misses them but seeing them is more painful than not and because 'issues' keep arising each time they meet, it is starting to affect his health. He finished off by saying he was there for them if they wanted to contact him!!!!

What a f'ing a**hole - as usual all about him, his objects aren't doing exactly as he wants them too (adore him) and so the only choice he has left is to abandon them completely, because the reflection he sees of himself in their hurt, sad faces is too much to bear.

Well Boo Hoo narc, I am glad they stopped pretending to care just to keep you happy, i am glad they stopped walking on eggshells, I am glad they stopped fearing you and started hating. I am glad they see you for what you are - a pathetic excuse for a father, a sperm donor. I am happy that when i told them they could have a break from seeing 'daddy'for a while that they sighed with relief and let go of the pressure they were carrying.

Just one more stunt for the wounded soldier to pull now and that would be some kind of self harm attempt. He had better not heap that kind of shame and guilt on to my D's shoulders.

I wish he would get out and stay out of their lives but I very much doubt that.