thomashal's story
thomashal's story
I have been with this scorpio for two years. He is a divorced father of two and the relationship is long distance. We did break up last year because he was having a hard time balancing me with his new job and being a single dad. But he begged for me back and things have been really good. I just went to see him two and a half weeks ago and we had a great time.
On march the 31st we spoke for a few minutes in the morning and that was it. His phone was off for 5 days and I left numerous messages and text and nothing. Then on the 6th day he texts me and tells me he has had a family emergency and that he is sorry if he hurt me and sorry if he made me worry but that he would call and explain. He never called so last weeked I tried him serval times and he wouldn't answer but texts me and says that he can't talk and that he is with his family. I asked him what was going on and why he wouldn't tell me what was going on and he sends me this text saying that he will talk to me when the time is right for him and that was it.
I have never in my life had someone do this or just stop talking to me and not tell me why. I am devastated..and feel like there is no way this man could love me like he claims. Also any time we have had drama its always been about his x but now I am thinking maybe he is cheating but at this point he has hurt me so bad his behavior is unforgivable..this is just so bizarre to me. I know that I may sound silly but we always promised each other that if we wanted to date other people or explore other options we would be honest with each other but I don't know what to think.
I haven't spoken to him in 15 days and now believe he will never talk to me. The hard part is I don't know why...its like I know I didn't do anything wrong but I have never been treated like this before. He has been distant before but never just stopped all communication. I have not tried to reach for 5 days now..I guess I don't exist to him anymore... someone told about this site once I shared my story with them. any help would be great because i am pretty devastated
Welcome thomashal
Hi Sweetie, here's something I see in your story:
This is a blessing in disguise...
Thomashal