I would have been 5 weeks NC today. When I read enoughalready's post, I was both proud and happy that she reacted the way she did when he showed up unexpectedly on her but I was also VERY nervous and antsy because I knew this Friday (today) would be 5 weeks for me, too. (And only because he did end-runs around my NC because of professional connections, which I am trying hard to break despite the economy.) Well...today he called. It was a legitimate, professional call. (Damn it.) I stayed professional, nothing personal, stayed neutral, talked business (and only what was necessary) and left it at that. However...a sweet possible result. It seemed to me that he was trying to "cover" his own involvement in some nasty business that may just come back and bite him in the butt...and hopefully cost him his job. It's a long shot but I definitely heard the underlying issue and sensed the fear. Perhaps he thinks I will still stand up for him. NOT. NEVER. If you screwed up, I will NOT be there to bail you out in any way, shape or form! A very slight glimmer of hope that he will finally be caught and pay a heavy price. I know it's unlikely as N/P's can talk their way out of anything. But I heard and sensed the fear and know he screwed up and might be caught. But just staying neutral and not caving into him was sweet for me!!

have you guys seen the movie "Alfie" with Jude Law? I read somewhere online that it was about a narcissist...so of course, I got it from itunes. It doesn't get really indepth, but the character is definetly a somatic narcissist

Girl, I don't know what I'd do if I saw my N.
Remaining no contact has been easy as after I told him exactly how he "really was"
he hasn't really contacted me--->withdraw YET AGAIN
I'm not sure he will ever try to contact me, because the person I THOUGHT HE WAS...would be too dignified to do such a thing (in reality, too superior).