The part that really gets me is when he said "do not judge Sandy for the things I have done" Judge her for what? It never once crossed my mind to judge her for his screwing a bunch of tatooed jump-offs. Also, him saying a huge hole was left in his heart because he did not have the baby around to hold. This is true narc behavior at its best; always about them "me me me me me me". What about the huge hole he left in Sandra's heart? I know she is hurt and we are praying for her. I am so glad she got her new baby. However, she needs to get this manipulative bastard out of her life at the speed of lighten.

Jesse James this week: "My whole life has been full of hard decisions. My decision to let my wife end our marriage, and continue the adoption of Louis on her own, has been the hardest."

Did he just say, "LET"?????

http://www.nypost.com/p/pagesix/sad_sandra_Q0lBunAYXWH7cJ6yobvfxO

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Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals

Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller

http://www.nydailynews.com/gossip/2010/04/13/2010-04-13_jesse_james_fift...

don't speak to her, she's crazy
she's obsessed with me
you've been warned
stay away from my new wife/gf/friend
if you say anything I will make your life hell
if you speak the truth about what I did - I will smear you for the rest of your life
you're a liar/ she's a liar

Now a victim calls classic Pathological Jesse James on the carpet!! AMEN!!!

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Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals

Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller

RE: Jesse James:

"This whole thing has destroyed Jesse's entire universe," Yanny said. "Right now, he's a broken
man."

BOOOOO HOOOOO, POOR JESSE!!!

http://wonderwall.msn.com/tv/friend-says-jesse-james-wants-to-save-marri...

I think the difference between someone getting supply from an animal and those that really love their animals is sacrifice. Yes, those of us (me included) love the affection and adoration that animals show us in return for our kindness and caring. But those of us who really love our animals do things for them ...even when it inconveniences us. Very similar to how a parent loves a child. For instance, I work during the day all week and rarely schedule social events during the workday evenings because it's unfair to my dog who's home all day waiting for his evening walk. Do I miss out on social experiences because of this? Yes. But the dog is my responsibilitiy and I care about his welfare, so I sacrifice for him. And it brings me great pleasure to see him happy and getting the exercise he needs every night. And my cat, well he LOVES that stinky canned food, so despite the offense to my nose, I dish it out nightly because it makes him happy.

Narcs who claim to love animals, I would guess, just take what they can from them (admiration, affection, etc.) and don't give back to them. My 1st N claimed to love, love, love his two kitties (over the top display of affection that I've never seen a man show toward animals). But he often referred to them as his "accent cats" (because their all black coats were a striking contrast to his decor) and he didn't clean their litter box for weeks. So he did little "for them" and he took all the attention they gave happily.

My second N, well he may actually be a sociopath (or at least sociopathic). He hated my dog because the dog required attention--something he wasn't willing to relinguish. He needed 100% of my attention and either sulked or threw a fit if the dog wanted anything from me. Such a putz.

what kind of rehab is he in?...NA?...Nazis Anonymous??

I think it's unfair to say that narcs don't change - with every relationship they learn a little more about how to manipulate and control and what they should do in the future to ensure the next source doesn't catch on so quickly - they do change and rehab and therapy just enables them to become even more evil.

I see he has checked in to rehab to try and save his marriage.

i bet there are DOZENS....i think we should start a 'wishing them dead list'....if there is power in positive thinking there must also be power in many people wishing someone dead at the same time..........

this land shark needs to be harpooned......