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As I recall bits and pieces of the finale,
things he had said are coming back to me, and I remember thinking how strange they were at the time!
I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced similar stuff?
Some of the reasons he felt it should be over as he left,
"there wasn't enough room in the driveway"???????
"he was going to buy another house for us just a couple of weeks ago, and realized he was digging his hole deeper"?????
Uh...oh yeah, " I didn't want to move with him to the land we had bought"...........WHAT?? We only rode by there every weekend for 6 years and talked about it???
When I remember these things, I realize how these really were what he considered reason enough to leave his family!
Not to mention the two year affair I found out about...
But these cold, completely off the wall reasons, were how he thinks! Those were the things that he cared about.......nothing to do with love or devotion or commitment....Isn't that bizzare? Isn't it downright eery?
the house of hatred....
March 27, 2010 - 5:33am — narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)mine was always claiming he was gonna have to leave me because, to quote him.....'I cannot bear to live in this house of hatred'..
the house was CEDAR...HE was HATRED....if he was living in his junk car..it would be a car of HATRED....
he also always wanted to leave because i didn't show him any respect..gee...can't imagine why i ahd no respect for a gutter crawling, back stabbing, undermining, hot vodka swilling, drug snorting, thieving, lying, wife beating, dog murdering piece of rat turd......
he was always coming up with some reason...something in which i was totally to BLAME...that made it to where he could no longer stand to live with my wretched self.....but, you could throw him out the front door, and he'd be tunneling up through the basement five minutes later......
gullable gull
March 27, 2010 - 1:01am — Barbara (not verified)if you read the NarcSpeak section (link on left margin) they ALL say the wierdest, coldest, most bizarre sh*t ever!
Psycho-Boy first said that actually talking to me "wouldn't help either him or I" - LOL!! right....
then he said it would "hurt [his] wife too much" - how about what he was doing online the prior 5 years with sex chats, booking hookers, cyberrooms, non-stop porn?
whatEVER!!! Just GET OUT you Narc!
sure it would be bizarre IF he was a normal human being; but he's NOT normal and he's most certainly NOT HUMAN. You must stop thinking of him as if he is.
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