Lisa E. Scott

I won in court but now I'm getting it!

I won in court but now I'm getting it!
Posted Thu, 03/11/2010 - 21:17

So xN and new wife took me to court to get full custody. They did not win. Everyone was so happy, except for me. I could not shake the feeling that it was not over. Now two days later I find out they are suing me for overpaid child support and other things that I don't know about yet. I actually gave him more time with child and now they are trying to bleed me financially.

Here's my question: when is it enough for Ns and they direct their torture to the new one and leave me alone?

Any moms out there that have figured out how to co-parent with these fruitcakes?

‹ what is no contact very bad day........days..... ›

jordansmom

Fri, 03/12/2010 - 06:21 — grossot

Wow! I'm so happy for you! I dare any N to try and take away children from their wonderful mommy!

I am not giving you the rite act but how are you doing with No Contact?

The only definitive control you have over this harrassment (besides the legal system which just plain doesn't 'get it') is NO CONTACT. All business only when it comes to the kids. Never engage in an arguement. No matter how wrong he is.

You can do this. Come her to 'tell him off'. We'll listen!

And way to go!

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nolongercontrolled

harassment via court

Fri, 03/12/2010 - 13:38 — Barbara

maintain no contact.

if you need to deal with this legally - tack on a countersuit for "harassment via court" and make them pay all YOUR court costs for defending yourself against this B.S.

hang in there

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jordansmom

Thu, 03/11/2010 - 22:03 — quietude

I wanted to tell you congratulations on getting/or keeping full custody! The judge must have seen through their pitiful attempt. I have faith that this will happen again, and the court will wonder why you are continuing to be harassed by their sorry butts?? I say good freaking luck trying to sue you for dumbass reasons. I would like to see your lawyer slap them with a counter-suit for harassing you over nonsensicle matters, as well as having them pay your court costs. You know, these guy PUSH, PUSH, PUSH...how about pushing twice as hard back??? Sorry, this just irks me.
We are all rooting for you...again, grats on your VICTORY!! :)

I'm new to this site but

Thu, 03/11/2010 - 21:43 — sanctuary

I'm new to this site but "old" when it come to N's as co-parents. I hate to say this but it's rarely enough when it comes to the kids and the opportunity that supplies them (N's)to stay in your life. I don't think there's such a thing as co-parenting with them. My goal is to survive it and help my daughter to survive as well.

I went bankrupt due to the divorce and now, 9 yrs later, am in danger of losing my home because I'm in court with him. My daughter ran away from him and and the N step mom, and has been living with me full time for the last two yrs. When I dared asked the court to adjust my support the you know what hit the fan!!! I currently get less than $60 per month, for a teenager.

My advice to you is never give up, especially when it comes to your kid(s). He'll never be fair, understanding, or honest. He will lie about everything and anything. So will the new wife.

With that in mind, get whatever help and support you can. Try to get some sort of professional that gets the whole N thing. Make sure you have some emotional support as well, friends or family, including this website will help. Most important is take care of yourself so you can take care of your child.

Wish I had more to offer but it's a frustrating situation at best. Good Luck!!