I am wondering if this is common. My no-contact has been solid except for kid issues. Our final court date is coming up in less than a month. Hi contact is increasing.

He is texting me all the time. He calls and leaves messages all the time. The calls are not for the kids, since he calls when they are in school. He texts when his gf is at work or after she has fallen to sleep. I don't respond.

His new thing is that he is going to sign the court papers since he understands that we can't work out our marriage in less than a month. (He totally does not comprehend that I don't want him back.) He is going to dump his gf and her kids as soon as he can sell our house. He is going to move to my state to be close to the kids. He is going to prove to me that he can be a dedicated father, and will work to get back to our marriage.

Oh, and by the way, he will dump his gf after the house sells cause once again, he can't be alone.

I am not in the picture at all. My feelings are completely not in his thoughts. The divorce means nothing to him.

When will the cf finally back off and find someone else who wants to be his life support. You would have thought he would have died off by now from my lack of supply.