On Tuesday I saw my N with two lawyers present. Signed over the deed to the house & the title to the car.

I was sitting down. The two lawyers were talking on an aside. I did no look at N. He stood behind a partition so I could not see him. Then, he decided to take control. He cam over to me. I was sitting, he was standing. (Domination.)

He says, "You don't want to talk to me?"

"No."

"Are you angry with me."

"No."

"Then why don't you want to talk to me?"

"Because we have nothing to discuss."

Then I went to the Ladies' Room while the lawyers were speaking in private. When I came back, and sat down, while the lawyers talked, he just stood there staring at me so intensely. I turned my back to him. There must be something to this notion that they have hynotic powers. The staring . . . the evil eye.

Later, there was an issue because he didn't do what he was supposed to have done. While the lawyers were speaking, he again came over & said some self-serving crap about the thing not done & what he would do about it. I looked at the floor & just nodded.

I was very upset by seeing him. I remained calm & ignored him. But, of course, he was the "mature" one in public talking to me. But, really, analyze the exchange. Where is the, "Hello. How are you?" Everything in the second person . . . "you don't want to talk to me" "why don't you want to talk to me" -- it was all about him.

I left him on May 2nd, 2009. All the e-mails, all the phone calls, everything about him, his pain, him, him, him. Never once has he asked me if I am OK? He never even asked me where I lived! The man did not know where his wife was! It only dawned on him during the final separation agreement negotiations, he did not have an address & I did not want to give it. Then it became a huge power issue for him. He had to know to sue me for failure to perform my duties under the agreement. In the end, he was the one to have failed to perform everything.