HE actually bragged about not hitting any other woman/women,but,he had no problem pushing me down,shoving me down,and,slapping me in the face like a pro.Its totally the opposite of what these psycho's say.
I like the new section, narc speak. It's like a dictionary/translation tool for non-narcissists (ie, human beings) stuck in narcissist land and trying to make sense of the total confusion they're feeling (and looking for a way out).
The "what they say" translations was too funny (and true) to be buried as a thread. Very good idea. And also such a good idea to have a place for references of people who get N's.
February 28, 2010 - 6:23pm — quietude (not verified)
LOVE IT! The example phrases ~ great idea! It's easy to relate to, and I bet the new folks visiting will be floored to see similarities in what their partners say and what's written there.
yup...
March 9, 2010 - 6:20pm — time_to_move_onvery true.
My ex:
"I have never wanted to hit a woman before then I met you".
Said with a smile :( He didn't hit me but threatened and shoved me around, was enough to keep me under control.
And:
"I didn't tell you what I was doing as I wanted to protect you".
Right, so that's why he did it.
Very useful feature.
[EDIT]... sorry.. just saw meant to send to you. Will remember the rest at some point. He was cheating on me when he wanted to "protect" me.
mine said
March 9, 2010 - 6:37pm — racheI have NEVER hit a woman before-then,proceeded to shoving,pushing,then slapping me in the face
yes...
March 9, 2010 - 6:56pm — time_to_move_onI don't get it.. how can someone say "I don't hit women" then shove you around? Mine did the same. Total joke.
Yeah
March 9, 2010 - 7:02pm — racheHE actually bragged about not hitting any other woman/women,but,he had no problem pushing me down,shoving me down,and,slapping me in the face like a pro.Its totally the opposite of what these psycho's say.
Love NarcSpeak section...
March 9, 2010 - 6:13pm — nycsurvivorSo helpful and scarily familiar. It's like deja vu all over again.
One of the lines was interpreted in a way I had not thought of....
I had no idea that when he said, "Maybe I'm not the right one for you" would cause me to be more eager to please him, and MAKE HIM HAPPY.
It is so damn subtle.
quotes
March 3, 2010 - 3:37pm — Barbara (not verified)you're supposed to email them to me...
it's ok I'll take them from here this time. Many thanks!
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I like the new section, narc
March 2, 2010 - 12:27am — narcsurvivorI like the new section, narc speak. It's like a dictionary/translation tool for non-narcissists (ie, human beings) stuck in narcissist land and trying to make sense of the total confusion they're feeling (and looking for a way out).
Nice work:)
Excellent Section!!
March 1, 2010 - 3:28am — EmpathyHighly recommend this to newbies .... they will certainly recognise the comments and learn the REAL meaning of what a narc is saying.
Also shows just how f#cked up thier minds are ! ...lol
Nice work ladies ;)
I noticed these...
February 28, 2010 - 6:34pm — itreallyisabouthimnice!
The "what they say" translations was too funny (and true) to be buried as a thread. Very good idea. And also such a good idea to have a place for references of people who get N's.
anyone seen this?
February 28, 2010 - 5:43pm — Barbara (not verified)comments?
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The world is a dangerous place, not only because of those who do evil, but because of those who look on and do nothing. - Albert Einstein
Visit My Info. Website for Abuse Victims
OMG!
March 9, 2010 - 3:18pm — racheTOTALLY sh.t my ex psycho spoke to me-his language understood finally-what a freaking loser.....
similarites-- I read through
March 4, 2010 - 2:31am — Msimilarites--
I read through & said--"he said that to me" on numerous topics!!
I could send you e-mails with the same!!!
Barbara
March 3, 2010 - 3:05pm — StephI love this section!
I can't seem to get the link to work for me to send in mine so i'll put them here....hope that's ok.....
"I felt like I was going to get violent. No woman has made me feel that way before"
After he broke up with me and I agreed the break up was good:
"Sounds like you pretty much broke up with me too then, hey?"
"Well, did you even love me....I wouldn't"
"I didn't realize what a bad boyfriend I was until you pointed it out"
"I hope you find a better boyfriend than me"
"I don't know what you will think of me in the next weeks but i want you to know i appreciated you"
Barbara
March 3, 2010 - 3:07pm — Stephsorry duplicate post
saw that yesterday
February 28, 2010 - 6:23pm — quietude (not verified)LOVE IT! The example phrases ~ great idea! It's easy to relate to, and I bet the new folks visiting will be floored to see similarities in what their partners say and what's written there.