This makes total sense. The site states, “Because some people mistake kindness and niceness for weakness, and they prey on weak people.” That is very true. I know firsthand that when you stand up for yourself, they back down. This also might explain why I showed up to our hang-out spot and he left- even after he threatened me not to show up there anymore. Coward.
And I agree with the jealous input, I do think they are envious and jealous of our ability to feel happiness and love.
even told my son that i was naive.They want a woman they can just use.My son said the ex N didnt want a woman-just a puppet that he could stick his hand up its ass and make it say and do as he told it.
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This makes total sense. The
Wed, 02/17/2010 - 10:12 — PiscesdreamThis makes total sense. The site states, “Because some people mistake kindness and niceness for weakness, and they prey on weak people.” That is very true. I know firsthand that when you stand up for yourself, they back down. This also might explain why I showed up to our hang-out spot and he left- even after he threatened me not to show up there anymore. Coward.
And I agree with the jealous input, I do think they are envious and jealous of our ability to feel happiness and love.
envy
Wed, 02/17/2010 - 15:43 — Barbarathey consider our emotions to be weakness, they aren't the LEAST BIT jealous of them!
but they do have pathological envy for humans:
http://www.chameleongroup.org.uk/npd/narcissist.html
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My ex N
Wed, 02/17/2010 - 12:03 — racheeven told my son that i was naive.They want a woman they can just use.My son said the ex N didnt want a woman-just a puppet that he could stick his hand up its ass and make it say and do as he told it.
Thank you for the link. I
Wed, 02/17/2010 - 09:55 — peacewarriorThank you for the link. I also read about jealousy and envy which is enlightening also.
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Mon, 05/17/2010 - 08:08 — BarbaraREAD LINK IN TOP POST
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