I am going to talk to my lawyer about this tomorrow but also wanted to ask any insight from people who have been or are going through a divorce with an N in particular.

I know I read somewhere about divorcing a N that it's great if you can catch him in a lie. But you have to have incontrovertible truth.

I have received the responses to the request for admissions portion of my discovery (I asked him to admit certain things and past events and he either admitted or denied these things). Well, he denied a few things (more like a dozen) that I have SOME manner of proof on. The proof ranges from stuff his lawyer will probably poke holes in to what I would consider pretty good lock-down evidence. But a lot of the stuff isn't that big of a deal. Like a lot of the past events themselves might make him look a bit dick-ish but would not make or break a custody case as an issue, kwim? So how important is lying about stuff like this, when it comes to court? Is any lie worth nailing him on or at some point do you look like you're just trying too hard to make him out to be a bad guy?

Does that make any sense?