Link-good read re evil/narcissim

This hits the nail on the head "conspicuous" displays. The exN/P revealed his methodology/pathology to use a prop/something as "proof" of his false claims/pretenses that others "see" One day he blurted out in a N rage (beet red to blue face)..like a dragon breathing fire raging he "bought that car..Mercedes...and it was to sit in the driveway so PEOPLE COULD SEE HE IS THE ALL NEEDS MEETING PROVIDER! Meanwhile for 7 yers he refused, sabbotaged, menally battered me and obstructed any maintenance on the house even changing the furnace filter. the houe had water problems and ssevere rot obvious to anyone driving by, rotted garage door, water stains running down the walls..he dished out ambient abuse, witholding and even eprived me sleep. Seperated..he'd agree to have repairs done..then call me crazymaking and was telling people I am psycho..manic..fixing things that are not broken..due to N delusional reality of his house is "p[erfect"..incapalbe to deal wih reality..furnace filter, fertilizer etc. Wow..no doubt the car "impressed" some people but neighbors see the line of carpenters, exterior repair people, broken irrigation system repaired..they don't "only see" what some psycho deems "proof" of. People notice the wife busting her ass too..ovrehauling the property..transforming the weed riddden yard..not just the f'ing car...btw he used that as another "proof" I am "extreme"...bulldozing me down and gaslighting me I "demanded the car"I am bipolar..the beginning of conning people I have..seven disorders. All hell broke loose..when I learned of his lies around the car I arranged to leave the car he wanted, insited on and I had given in..if it was important to him..fine however he witheld I could not get long needed and expensive dental work done. It was too much money at once..given the rotted house the realtor said could not be listed due to damage. Given my intgegrity and outrage lerning of heinious lies..I parked the car at his apartment..you chose it..you wanted it..here it is..I am fine driving the other car...and then walked to a phone to call a taxi. He stalked me..followed me down the street screaming "you are crazy.everyone wants you locked up..I am protecting you (wtf..from others?)I was terrified, kept walking to safety and got the taxi home. that's when he shifted to rage mode blurting out the car was..a decoy...prove he's the "best" man in the world..proof he meeets "all needs"....It came to light he conned people I am the abusive, insane, pathalogic liar, all needs depriving..you know..I am "insane depraved psychotic" personality. The ex/N waved around and used as "proof" copies of his credit card he "provided" for then becoming adult/independent kids... god help even the kid in college who used it to pay for a doctor visit...he'd rage and lie about teh offspring to lawyers..everyone but him "running amuck with his money".. He revealed he'd wear his grandfathers Masonic ring..if he was meeting someone who is a Mason..to con them he was one too!! What came out cleaerly was his N rage..wrath to do anything..ever for anyone, provide financially..blue faced frothing at the mouth..rage..that's how severe his pathalogic entitlement was. It came out everyone is to give, pay for and provide...and you will be sadistically tortured for not doing so and not refleting back or parroting their false fictional self and be their slave.Who needs to be an echo in the chamber of pahtalogical lies...it's that or do not speak at all! They also say things for show..false impressions in front of others..posturing..it's to con people for then they do and say the opposite too. If something is genuine, authentic or real sane people don't need to prove" their existence unless it's fictional to begin with. Once he arrived with a birthday cake at work..after 20 years of no BD for me...later..the security guard came to my rescue downstairs..the cake was "for show" or "proof". Beware: those who use anything as "proof" demand you :prove" to the exclusion of all other facts of reality.