angelgal's story

To make a long story short, I met fireguy at our local gym over a year ago. I ended up really liking him and we hit it off when we hung out...but then he would keep me at a distance. I would ask him why he was doing this and he would tell me, "I don't want to be in a relationship right now". I was upset but was told if I was patient and gave him time, that things would change. Well, they didn't. He just became more secretive and would never let me "really" know him. He never wanted to take me anywhere but he wanted to have sex with me. He said that we needed to stop this and that we needed to stay away from each other. I asked him if there was someone else and he denied it, of course. A few weeks later I went to the airport to pick up my friend and SHOCKINGLY I saw him picking up some girl. When I confronted him later after the weekend, he said that she was "just a friend" and was in town for her friend's wedding. I asked him where she slept and he said, "my bed" but we didn't do anything. I laughed at him and said, "you must really think I'm stupid"? "Wow, it all makes sense now, you have been having a long distance relationship! Again, he lied and said that I was "way off base". I was a fool and continued to have relations with him until I noticed every fourth weekend he was off, he went out of town. An aquaintance told me he was seeing a girl in another state for almost two years. I was so hurt and felt sooo used. All the things we did and he had a gf the whole time...eventually, he started to show signs of guilt and would only want to do certain things...but some were very degrading...my cousin contacted her facebook to let her know what was going on because she was going to move here, I told my cousin that unfortunately she would have to find out for herself. She just now moved here to live with him the beginning of January. I'm not doing too well. He only lives three blocks away and I hate him sooo much for all his lies and for using me. On top of this, my Mom has been sick with cancer and it has been a very tough time for me and this guy had no heart and just kept lying and lying and using me for sex...he knew that I liked him and would bring him food and sweet things all the time and he just took took took. He treated her like a gf and me like nothing...like I wasn't worth spending time with and getting to know, just sleeping with for his own selfish needs because she was so far away. We got into an argument one day and he told me that he didn't care about my sick mother like he would if it was one of his other friend's Mom. I cried and cried and cried...he has said some other very hurtful things to me, too...I hate him so much! Does this sound like a narcissist/pathological to you all?